“Vector bit me!” My toddler cried, Nicholas. Unconvinced, with Nicholas’s positive imagination, I stood up to investigate. I find myself arbitrating on one side – my dear son, often incapable of telling the truth, and on the other – my beloved lifeboat, inherently incapable of telling me anything. what. At first glance, there is no clue.
But for once my toddler was not exaggerated. The proof was the pink tears running down his face, Vector had bitten 10 times in his cheeks, so fiercely that he was bleeding. Nicholas screamed, and I was … stunned.
To say that this was not Vector-specific would be an expression similar to shrugging indifferently when Lassie ate Timmy (from the 1954 Lassie television series). At the age of nine, Vector had never been aggressive toward people – especially not his immediate family – and his time with us predated Nicholas’s existence. From becomes a big four-legged brother In 2016, Vector performed the standard hits, buckets, falls, and somersaults that young children give to their dogs with diplomatic indifference.
Vector loves Nicholas and vice versa. So what exactly happened?
Behind the bite
Separating the dog from the bitten one, I took Vector to a centimeter-wide room, shutting the door behind me. Next up was Nicholas. Suspecting that a toddler’s selective memory would soon distort the truth with fiction, I handed him a stuffed animal. “Show me what happened,” I said. Nicholas reenacted one of his key moves: hugging Vector from behind. While not advised in hindsight, it’s a scenario that has played out hundreds of times before. Why did this case end in bloodshed?
I go back to Vector. After a few select words that when I look back, I’m thankful he couldn’t fully understand, I calmed down, turned him around and imitated Nicholas’s approach. Nothing.
I know, I’m Vector’s favorite. If I could get him to react to me, that would confirm my suspicions that the bite was a defensive response to pain. I tried it again, this time under his right hand. Clapping his hands, Vector grabbed me into the air near my hand – he almost bit me. Bingo.
The next day, a trip to the vet uncovered a recently received bruise, which could have accumulated from high cracks in one of Vector’s infamous attempts to steal food. Products. The case is closed, but the last thing I want is to repeat it. Here’s what I have learned about preventing dog biting incidents around children.
Supervision, supervision, supervision
My family’s bite incident – an incident involving a dog in a close relationship and a child he has lived and loved for over three years – shows the ease with which comfort can create complacency. I committed a crime by overly trusting a plump 3-year-old and a cuddly pet that, although often very tolerant, was able to act if startled, threatened or injured.
I should have taken the same precautions as Nicholas to minimize the chance that Vector would bite any small child, whether mine or that of a perfect stranger. Despite being good together, young children and dogs can create an unstable situation that requires proper supervision.
“The first thing I tell the adopters is to always supervise your kids with your dog,” said Samantha Gurrie, the adoption director in Brooklyn. Project Satowhere dogs rescued from Puerto Rico and sent them to families across the eastern United States.
Of course, Samantha realizes that it is almost impossible to monitor both our dog and dog all the time. In cases, for example, an adult running around the house doing chores – or more and more people working from home – it is time to keep the dog away from the child. Here, pet or child portals can be an effective tool, as they often allow the dog to still see everything and therefore not feel completely obscured.
Teach your kids the dog’s do’s and don’ts
Samantha also emphasizes the importance of teaching young children to live with dogs how to properly interact with them.
“Don’t disturb a dog when it is sleeping, don’t grab its ears or pull its tail, don’t jump on top of it,” Samantha continued. “It makes me a bit thrilled to see pictures on social media of kids crawling around dogs or even riding them like horses.”
She added that young children, a lack of impulse control and an ability to understand that dogs can mislead innocent intentions, are almost always the mastermind of a bite. Taking a toy or item the dog enjoys, disturbing it during meal and bedtime, or surprising the animal are all capable of diverting dog encounters.
According to Jill Breitner, dog body language expert and founder of California-based Shewhisperer Dog Training, 77% of dog bites happen to friends and family. For families who are having a problem with dog-puppy compatibility, she recommends contacting Family Paws Parent Education, which offers safety programs.
Be aware of body language
Of course, the practice of bite prevention also extends beyond the home. Adults with dogs must remember that children will be … well, kids. The kids are unpredictable, unknown and vulnerable. The adult motivation to identify a dog’s warning signs could be a sign of a bite, bite, or other flare-up.
“It’s important to know the warning signs that a dog is under stress: looking away, hiding, licking his lips, gasping, drooling,” Jill said.
Prevent problematic situations
Situation awareness is another priority. Surprise, surprise: The house dog family eats human food. Therefore, special care must be taken during gatherings that involve food – especially large parties like backyard barbecue. For those with dodgy canines, like Vector, very good at stealing food, a ruminant kid is the most susceptible to mark and, if the kid overreacts, the encounter could resulting in more than one burger being bitten. Consider this, chaining (if outside) or chasing the dog out of the room (if inside) during food gatherings is the safest way.
There’s also one thing not to do outside of the house: Never tie your dog and walk away. Like humans, dogs have two options when threatened: fight or run. Tying your pet to a column while you run into a coffee will lose your preference – flight – and exponentially increase the other’s chance of spawning. Do not give young children – or anyone else – the chance to approach your pet cuddly but in captivity, as a pat on the head can turn into a mild bite on the hand.
Unfortunately, no precaution is completely safe. If bitten by a dog, Samantha and Jill agree that reprimanding the dog may sound reasonable at first, but in fact backfiring. Per Jill, “Dogs with verbal or physical punishment only increase their fear, which in turn increases the risk of further bites.”
With vigilance and best practice, the risk of a dog biting with young children is greatly reduced. For my family, a single bite didn’t ruin the relationship: Nicholas, while once bitten, doesn’t mean being shy about embracing his four-legged big brother … except now, he will definitely approach from the front.
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